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Lokuttara

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Re: I can't feel pleasure and sitting doesn't help anymore, please help
« Reply #25 on: January 31, 2011, 03:52:10 PM »
I f**ked myself up by wearing dark and spiky clothes, reading Stephen King, listening to Black Metal, watching depressing movies full of action & violence, ... you know what I mean. So, filling me up with "dark" stuff, I became "dark".
There's love out there? HA! I knew better ...

Hey Stefan, what do you mean by "f**ked myself up"? I also went through a period of black metal, horror movies, black clothes, alcohol, etc. But I look at it now as a form of expression for what I was going through emotionally at that time (darkness, anger), and it was a very necessary and useful part of the evolution of consciousness that shortly lead to the spiritual path, and to meditation.
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Re: I can't feel pleasure and sitting doesn't help anymore, please help
« Reply #26 on: February 17, 2011, 05:40:45 PM »
I f**ked myself up by wearing dark and spiky clothes, reading Stephen King, listening to Black Metal, watching depressing movies full of action & violence, ... you know what I mean. So, filling me up with "dark" stuff, I became "dark".
There's love out there? HA! I knew better ...

Hey Stefan, what do you mean by "f**ked myself up"? I also went through a period of black metal, horror movies, black clothes, alcohol, etc. But I look at it now as a form of expression for what I was going through emotionally at that time (darkness, anger), and it was a very necessary and useful part of the evolution of consciousness that shortly lead to the spiritual path, and to meditation.

That only proves how we all are different  ;)
When I was angry I used to listen to Slayer or Venom (as a form of emotional expression, sure), and afterwards I wasn't less angry.
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Re: I can't feel pleasure and sitting doesn't help anymore, please help
« Reply #27 on: February 21, 2011, 09:32:21 PM »
The problem is all in your head.

Take a step back, and take a look at yourself.

You are a human being, a member of planet earth, a child of mother nature.

You may be a little lost and confused as to what how things should be, but the reality is, there is no such thing as "should be". "Should be" is all in your head, there is simply "is" and all you can do is simply "be".

Time to forget about about society, and all the brainwashing it has done to you about what you "should" do, and what you "should" be, and how you "should" feel, with who you "should" live with, remove all that stuff from your head and go take a walk in the park and reconnect with nature.

There is more to life than finding a prestigious job, find something that lets you do what you want with life.

« Last Edit: February 21, 2011, 09:37:59 PM by budo »

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Re: I can't feel pleasure and sitting doesn't help anymore, please help
« Reply #28 on: February 21, 2011, 09:59:38 PM »
Very well said budo.

Warmly,

Matthew
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