Until now I have been very hesitant in participating in this thread. It is a “clash of the titans” far beyond where I belong or have anything of any value to contribute, in a factual, logical or philosophical sense. However, I am greatly saddened by the way it is going and as such am motivated to participate with a view to stopping it.
I guess, after a great deal of thought (time which undoubtedly would have been better spend meditating!), I would kindly, respectfully and humbly ask you both, Mathew and Jhananda to stop this debate. Just stop. Now. We all know that on the Web there are loads of pages on Buddhism and meditation, so there is a lot of people out there walking the walk and talking the talk about these things, but what for me (and I would like to think for many others here) what is so very valuable and special about this forum (that Mathew has started, runs and dedicates so many hours of his time to helping people), which keeps me coming back when I have so little free time, is that it is “a hand on the path”. In essence, a practical guide to helping people progress with the practice. I don’t feel alone in my struggle. I really feel that this interchange is losing that spirit.
I think that for the great majority of us in here, we are so far away from experiencing Jhana and that this debate is just not relevant. I accept that it is fundamentally important (and for what it is worth, I do actually have a strong opinion about it, although I am not going to put it here, since I have little ground upon which to found it), but way down the path for most of us, and given the practical supportive nature of this forum, I think that we should all respect each others perspective (whether we agree or not) and just walk away. Where no one tries to get the last word in… I mean “walk away” from this thread, not the forum. Jhananda, I have found a lot of your posts extremely interesting and valuable and show a lot of careful and erudite study, so I would ask you, please, not to leave. You have a lot of good practical information for newbies, wanabees and the like. Please don’t keep it to yourself just because of an “advanced practitioners disagreement” – regardless of whether you are right or wrong. Let’s just help each other along on the path.
As an aside, I am all too familiar with these online debate problems. As an academic I spend a lot of time arguing with my colleagues about research-related questions (that is how progress is often made). Some of these debates / disagreements have gone on for years – we will probably never reach an agreement. When I started off in this academic world and presented my first research ideas to my thesis supervisor, he wiped the floor with me and it left me somewhat depressed and disorientated. When he realised what happened, he told me that he was attacking my ideas and not me. With time I got used to it and now it is another tool in my repertoire. I have many times (in the heat of debate) stepped over the line and called people stuptid (or worse) and told them that their ideas are so bad that they are not even wrong, etc., but once the debate is over (clear result or not), am still happy to go down the pub with them! What I have found (the hard way) is that oral debates are a lot better than written ones. When we actually talk, a lot of what we say is imprecise and not exactly what we mean or wanted to say. Fortunately it blows away in the wind, but in emails and forum messages you are damned for what you write! It is just too easy to start citing each other and in no time one has a flame war going. Human use of natural language is just too sloppy for it to be used as a precise measure of what is meant, etc. And it can be just so damaging. These days when I get an email that I find delicate, or where I anticipate that a certain question is going to be delicate, I always try to meet the person or have a phone conversation to defuse any tension. I am not suggesting for a second that Mathew and Jhananda should get face to face, or do a Skypee, I am merely indicating the problems of written interchange – it can be dangerous. We should all be careful.
So please, lets just leave this thread alone and lets get back to the real purpose of this forum of actually helping each other along and sharing our own practical experiences, without judging others.
Thanks, fingers crossed,
TT