I like this thread. I see two different kinds of situations to reflect on:
1) When in formal meditation, and distracting things start happening around us.
I also have a dog, and I love her dearly. She is very protective however, and will start barking at the slightest noise. She is very persistent and will sometimes bark for 45 minutes straight! I live with others, and this morning, in my sit, someone began talking on the phone
very loudly in the other room, and it was very difficult for me to maintain mindfulness of my breathing. This kind of situation often leads me to suffer from aversion to these distractions, but truthfully they can be one of our biggest teachers. Try to maintain mindfulness, just be aware that you are distracted, that the distraction is occurring. Just bring your attention back to the breath, or whatever your meditation object is. It will build resillience!
2) When in daily life, and remembering to be mindful of my breath, but other things are also going on.
Part of why I sit is to be mindful of what is occurring in my walking life, both within me and on the outside. Your post made me think of a quote I heard on a Karme Yeshe Rapyge's podcast. He said that a man in ascetic India saw how well the Buddha and his follower's were doing, and asked him what his practice is. The Buddha said:
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We eat, we walk, we think, we sit." Something along those lines. The man who asked the Buddha the question was confused, as everyone does these things! He asked the Buddha how that is any different from any other path, and the Buddha replied:
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When we eat, we know we're eating. When we walk, we know we're walking. When we think, we know we're thinking. When we sit, we know we're sitting." To me this illustrates how important being mindful in every aspect of my life is. I think when you're in public or walking your dog, being mindful of breath, also allow yourself to be mindful of how in-the-moment your precious dog is as well. Be aware of your compassion and gratitude that arises when you realize the nature of your dog in that moment. When you find yourself being caught up in your mind again, being mindful of that.
When your neighbor calls out to you, be in the moment and ask him how his/her day went, etc. When I'm talking to someone, I think it's much more productive to look them in the eye and make them the most important thing at that very moment, than it is to be aware of my breath (Unless emotions arise, then I turn the attention inward).
I am very, very new to this path, so please take what I say with a grain of salt. I only decided to leave such a long-winded reply because I am also learning this balance in my daily life, and I related with what you said quite a bit. My effort to be mindful in my sits is mainly to benefit my awareness in my walking life. In my eyes, one should not really be prioritized over the other
