In the book of Vimalaramsi you can read the sutta before the explanation of his meaning.Then you can agree or disagree with the explanation.Personally I agree, and for now It worked very well for me.
I'm in the 6th month practicing meditation, a very short time I know, but I got a lot of changes.I do sit every day at least once.First of all I feel more happy, relaxed and fulfilled in my life.I got a lot of habits I didn't have before, I'm more clean, I study more and better, I started to do exercise regulary, left smoking, left alcohol, I have learned to draw (i'm not good but before I was like hell) and take my camera with me every day, I'm learning paper folding too, I'm more kind with people and like more their company...Before meditation I spent that time playing video games, in night party and watching movies and stuff, dreaming how my life would be If I could do this, or I do that...Those habits are only "things", changes in the surface if you want to call It, but for me, personally, is a huge and radical change, for good, and came to me naturally, I didn't force them. I feel like a new person.
Also he stated that there is a thin membrane around the brain that tightens around the brain when one has craving... Yet when talking to neorologists they state that that is totally false.. there is not a membrane that tightens around the brain when one experiences craving...
I watched Venerable Vimalaramsi's video. I didn't see what he had to say as being at odds with the way S.N. Gonenka via his videos teaches meditation at his retreats. Goenka's retreat videos outline Dependent Origination and they teach the students to cut the cycle short in between contact and desire. The videos explain that the way to do that is to simply be aware of the desire, while trying to be equanimous.That is what Venerable Vimalarmsi is instructing people to do, with the difference being that he is focusing much more on how to be equanimous.
I am just a beginner so please disregard my rambling, but i tried focusing more on the relaxing component the last few sittings and i found it counterproductive, dulling the awareness. I think relaxing is a very dangerous word to use in instructions, mabye it`s the opposite of restlessness and there`s something inbetween them on the middle of that scale that is the right answer; a neutral calm of sorts. Of course i could be doing it wrong and missing his point.